How first impressions in dating are changing in 2025

Especially in modern dating, where dating apps conversations linger for months, making texting situationships a reality

First impressions don't last

The meet-cute for Rishi and Dimple in Mismatched ensured neither made a great first impression. But in a world that is increasingly shaped by social media, first impressions in dating are no longer decisive.

The mythical first date

People are turning to dating apps in India to destress—a December 2024 study in India found many users engage in casual chats without any real intention to meet.

Digital profiles are more filtration than impression

Digital profiles act as a filtration process more than forming a lasting first impression. Digital swiping is superficial, and depends on looks, statistics, and even politics.

Decoding digital body language

Technology also allows people to curate images that obstruct a genuine connection from developing. A 2024 Hinge study found that Gen Z prioritises non-verbal subtext of emojis, punctuation, message length, and response time.

The unending texting phase

There are instances when people tend to get attached just through texting. Delaying a first meeting beyond a month can be unhealthy if it ends in disappointment when people meet for the first time.

Social media gives easy access

Social media platforms make it easier to unlearn and relearn details about someone. People can connect instantly. Which Dhruv and Kavya do in Little things, while also making an effort to plan their first date.

Comfort and safety over everything else

First impressions based on dress or speech aren’t enough to gauge whether a person makes you feel safe. Those are superficial factors rooted in stereotypes and first impressions.

Lack of effort: A red flag

But the lack of effort in planning a first date is a red flag. Missing effort shows a lack of the intent to date seriously.